February 2005
The Bishop's Letter
From Bishop Kevin Manning
published in the February 2005 issue of Catholic Outlook.
My Dear People,
Recently, I was commiserating with a fellow Bishop about pressure in
our lives and how modern technology has increased the demands made upon
us.
Some of these are pure pressure of work; others of little consequence,
but niggling; some that come in the guise of sugar-coated criticism,
straight-out threats, or sheer misunderstanding about the nature of the
Church.
Bishops are not unique in the way they are pressured. Whoever we are,
and whatever we do, there is need to practise perseverance and patience in
our lives.
Patience
Patience as a virtue was never meant to be a stoic acceptance of
suffering, nor a surrendering to fate. It is a strong virtue for, in
practising it, we accept adversity as something that comes from God,
helping us to identify with His Will. We exercise patience, firstly, in
regard to our own behaviour; not surrendering to our defects, but
persisting with confidence in God's love.
People who contend with sinful habits know that good habits develop
only after perseverance, humble prayer and trust in God. Our encounters
with others offer real opportunities to exercise patience, especially if
we are caring for children, the sick or the aged.
Defects
The defects of others can be a testing source of patience for even though
we don't always agree, other people generally try to improve themselves by
controlling anger, practising courtesy and not jumping to conclusions.
There may be times when we, ourselves, have to correct others, but
charity, first of all, demands that we be patient and understanding in
correcting.
As we know, the unexpected in our lives, eg, sickness, inadequate
finance, ignorant and cutting remarks, unwanted visitors, triggers off all
kinds of reactions. These occasions provide us with the opportunity to
experience Christ in others, to restrain ourselves, and to love God in our
neighbour.
Charity
St Paul, in his first letter to the Corinthians, said that "charity
is patient" and we know charity is high on the sanctity scale. But,
we have no reason to give into discouragement if we fail in charity.
Jesus, Himself, must have felt pretty impatient at times, especially in
His encounters with the poor, the sick and the angry. He said so Himself:
"They look without seeing and listen without hearing or
understanding." (Mt 13:13)
Yet, He never gave up on them, not even the 12 Apostles, who were
anything but perfect. Towards the end, Christ said: "I still have
many things to say to you but they would be too much for you to bear
now." (Jn 16:12)
He knew his Disciples' inadequacy, He probably wanted them to be
perfect, but they weren't, so He didn't dismiss them. These men, after the
coming of the Holy Spirit, became the leaders of His Church.
To be patient we need to be humble and try to detect God's plan in the
impatient, who often mirror our own defects. We shouldn't be discouraged
if others are indifferent to the ways of God, eg, lapsed Catholics, many
of whom long for God but need someone to work with them to help them to
understand.
We must never forget that the Lord has shown us great patience, which
we should reciprocate towards others. We can't go past St Paul for a bit
of advice: "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all
things, endures all things."
But, we do need patience to bring this about.
Yours sincerely in Christ,
Bishop Kevin Manning
Bishop of Parramatta


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